MEN AND RELATIONSHIP

There is a huge age gap in maturity between men and women. Women know they want to find a good man, get married, and settle down long before men do. Men want to have fun and go on wild nights out for years after women are through with all that.

Men do want relationships. The problem is that most of them are not mature enough to handle one. The question has been raised as to why women tend to prefer older men. The answer is simple: maturity. Older men are ready to settle down and they don’t want to go out for nights on the town. Younger men are still sowing wild oats and wanting to play games. They don’t want to commit to a woman because they don’t want to be tied down.

As they get older and more mature, men begin to see that there are more important things than the number of girlfriends they have. Men are clumsy in relationships. They often do not understand women and it often seems that a man and woman are speaking in two different languages. What she means isn’t want she’s saying and he always believes what she’s saying. And so on. One of the biggest problems in relationships is the bad communication but without work on both sides, the problem can’t be fixed.

When men work hard at relationships, they make sure their women feel cherished. They devote themselves entirely and try very hard to provide everything that is needed. They may not always understand what they are supposed to do, but they try. Men are not likely to stick around if a woman makes them feel unwanted, but if they are needed, they will be there. There are some kinds of women – such as those who are extremely clingy or those who are impossible to get along with – that will make men run for the hills. But if a woman treats her man with respect and love, she can expect to get the same returned. Men do well in relationships once they have the maturity and while there are exceptions to the rule, normally men are in their late twenties before they really can commit to a relationship.

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